Sunday 22 December 2013

Find your sky. Spread your wings. Claim your infinity!

Source:http://www.sxc.hu/browse.phtml?f=view&id=1228721

It is rightly said that one of the most important attributes of the human species is to be socially interactive. Amongst other pre-requisites for evolution of our culture, the inherent urge for interaction with fellow human beings - called Networking in modern parlance - has given a great advantage to us humans, which makes us what we all are. But at the same time, our peculiar genetic composition has provided each of us with a uniqueness often characterized by our ability to chart a special course in our journey of life. Often it takes a solo flight to reach your selected goal.

We are aware that nature has equipped us with the capacity to ‘think’ and ‘decide’ the path we choose to reach the destination. Yet, we sometimes go wrong in the endeavor.  Is it because we ignore or forget to take into account the Inner voice’?  This voice, or the calling of our heart, when tempered by reasoning – a quality of head - manifests itself into a human emotion called intuition.

So from my own experience, I am sharing here a few tips that helped me to find this balance. I hope they will enable you to enjoy your work, while attaining the material gain and fame you so well deserve.

      Ø Listen to your heart, but keep your eyes open: As someone rightly said, “the best way to make your dreams come true, is to wake up”. Once you have made up your mind of what is your true calling, don’t stop yourself from acting on it due to what we can call ‘action paralysis’. Build a month-by-month plan and follow it up diligently.

     Ø Being a social animal, believe in “Team Work”- but always concentrate on both i.e. Team and Work: Remember that if you want to make a significant contribution to the world, going solo can only take you so far. Don’t underestimate the power of collaboration.

     Ø Avoid self-delusion at all costs: Be your own biggest critic. Knowing your weaknesses is as important as knowing your strengths. Identify what are your flaws, gaps, things that hold you back, and consciously work towards overcoming them.

      Ø Strive for long term gains, rather than short term profits: and know the value of taking risks.

     Ø Anticipate & prepare to meet any situation: The blindfolded only tumble & fall. As you make your plan to reach your goal, always keep an alternate plan B ready in the eventuality that plan A may not succeed.

At “The Potter's Earth”, we firmly believe that each individual has the capability to achieve excellence. We therefore strive to help you in identifying your special place under the Sun - and lead a life of self fulfillment along with material success that is so essential to all of us.


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Col Ashish Dasgupta is a guest columnist for The Potter's Earth.

A civil engineer by qualification and a retired Army Officer by profession, Colonel Ashish Dasgupta has traveled the length and breadth of the country in the last 35 years. Through his travels and postings to various places and interactions with a host of interesting people, he has kept alive his passionate love for books and writing, and boasts of a closely-guarded personal collection of rare and interesting books gathered painstakingly over the years.

An avid reader and an animated story-teller, Col Dasgupta's latest passion is regaling his grandkids with stories and building in them the passion for following their dreams!




4 comments:

  1. An apt summary of the dilemma faced by most of us to the eternal question - can my passion be my day job? And I suppose that's what the journey of Green Thumbs is all about - finding your passion and following it to a sustainable income-generating and satisfying career option!

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  2. Balance that's the key..... we spend our lives trying to attain it. The pointers above are good inputs and can sure help. Provided one follows it through.

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  3. What is bad? What is good ?What is lie ?What is truth? These are only human attributes not integrated programmes given by some unseen power. But in daily life our actions are judged by these tenants. Question arises why good is good or bad is bad. If you don’t nudge you would be nudged out by others.
    Suppose I set a goal and try to achieve it .But the goal itself can be a shifting one, an unstable platform because one may strive for next goal. .Foothold on a ladder acts as temporary respite as other people from behind are pushing and jostling. Smelling “rat” race? If you stop you are stagnated in a cesspool or you try to move up making new contacts share and test ideas, experiment and see yourself go round and round in a labyrinthine corridors.

    Look at the sycophants and supplicants how they rise, dishonesty paid., honesty cursed are the new edicts
    I wanted to spread my wings but found my wings clipped by persons who themselves did not know how to fly. Yes I have tears in my eyes but I have dignity , I won’t show it to you.
    Ps- No, picture is not as bad for new generation.. Time has changed .You have persons around who act as a guide, counselors Who can do wonders for you Make you so bold and confident and help you reach a stage where you seek no other but believe in yourself and believe in an eternal mantra NEVER GIVE UP.

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    1. Anamika Dasgupta Sharma4 January 2014 at 05:26

      Than you for those heartfelt words. And while in this competitive world, a rat race cannot be avoided...it is good to help young people gear up so that some of the 'rat'tiness can be taken out of the 'race' :-) The quest to find your passion, and the courage of conviction to follow it thru to a lucrative career - that's what will make all the difference.

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